Perspectives on Time and Fatherhood

Each day has 24 hours and there’s a certain period during the day that I look forward to.

  • Five o’clock end-of-workday whistle? No. I love my job.
  • Bedtime? Nope. Although I do enjoy sleep. ;)
  • Cubs/Bears/Tech/Mavericks game on TV? Surprisingly no.

Monica leaves for work between 6:45 and 7:00 each morning, therefore; I have between 30 and 45 minutes with Katie Lynn. Just her and I. I feed Katie Lynn her morning fruit, get her dressed for daycare, and play with her in the living room. I have her undivided attention — unless Wrigley walks by, or she spots her favorite toy(s), or sees that one random piece of lint on the carpet. But that time is our time to bond. This special father-daughter time is invaluable. We “talk” to each other in the car as I drive her to daycare each morning.

I’ve always heard the phrase that babies are only “this” size once, and it’s so true. Before I know it, Katie Lynn is going to be feeding herself and dressing herself for school and riding with Monica. She won’t need us to do any of that for her.

On a somewhat related note, it’s amazing and refreshing to see fathers involved in raising kids. Each morning I see a good amount of fathers dropping kids off at Katie Lynn’s daycare. In Lubbock, I rarely saw any fathers at the daycare. Maybe that’s a geographic differentiation or something; I don’t know.

What I do know is that I value every minute I spend with my daughter, and the day just doesn’t seem to have enough time. :)

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4 Responses to “Perspectives on Time and Fatherhood”

  1. Monica

    October 13, 2008 10:43 PM


    I am so glad that you two have this time to bond, Katie Lynn loves you so much. At this age, it is okay when she goes to school and doesn’t match. I love you both so very many!

  2. Tom Sepper

    October 13, 2008 10:45 PM


    What!? She always matches! :)

  3. Grams

    October 15, 2008 6:21 PM


    There will be a day when Katie Lynn will dress herself and she “won’t match”! I know from personal experience!! (mismatched socks?) Tom, we are so thankful that you are Katie Lynn’s daddy and get to spend special time with her!
    love,
    Grams to Katie Lynn ;)

  4. Mom & Grandma

    October 19, 2008 8:12 PM


    As Katie Lynn gets older, I’m sure she will be able to match her own outfits. In the meantime, we always have the excuse of color-blindness!!! Enjoy that special time, Tom. I still enjoy special time with you and your family - means the world to me. Thanks for sharing. Love you always!!

 

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